How to turn Japanese women on? Or even, how to turn just any women on?
This is a question that keeps us up at night.
Fortunately, there’s plenty of advice out there if you know where to look.
And one such source of pearls of sexual wisdom has been added to the mix in the form of this new YouTube video.
Over the course of roughly 12 and a half minutes, the male and female hosts share five tips. It’s in a mix of Japanese and English, but with English subtitles throughout.
The video is made by standup comedian Meshida and Eri Natsume, a sex counselor who has recently begun posting online tips and insights about sex in English on Twitter.
The dilemma, Meshida claims, that foreigners face is that they find their Japanese partners too passive in bed and don’t know how to give them pleasure. “They don’t know how to enjoy making love with Japanese women.”
Well, we could flip them around and say that especially passive women don’t themselves know how to enjoy making love, but that’s a whole other can of worms.
To be fair, Eri herself says as much five minutes into the video when she notes that Japanese women aren’t good at expressing what they want from sex or even if, for example, they are in pain during sex because they don’t want to make the guy “nervous” about his performance. In our modest experience, that’s not always true, but perhaps readers can share their own experiences in the comments.
The video gets down to the concrete tips at about the halfway mark, beginning with the obvious-sounding advice to give a woman compliments.
So what are the tips?
Firstly, treat dinner as part of foreplay: a good meal helps a woman relax and become more comfortable (and so more aggressive, the hosts claim).
Other tips include having a soft touch (don’t be too rough), using sex toys (like vibrators — and we know where to get the best Japanese toys money can buy), and showing her your hentai (pervert) side.
Here’s the video.
If you’re keen to learn more, and frankly who isn’t, Meshida and Eri have another video available for the former’s Patreon members with the very clickable title of “What J-Women hate about sex.”
Another video on Meshida’s Patreon claims to teach you how to enjoy a trip to a happening bar (presuming you can find one — they are something of an endangered species these days due to police crackdowns).
